Crystals or gemstones can heal and aid us in a variety of ways. It is quite important to know how to choose the crystals that are a good fit for you. It’s true that you should buy what you’re drawn to but let’s think about this in terms of home utensils or tools…
Would you buy three hammers just to hang a picture? Do you need two capable pairs of scissors to wrap one gift? Most likely not, as you only need one.
Once you buy your crystal and get it home, there is a process of cleansing, charging, and bonding that is required so that you can infuse the crystal with clear intent before working with it. I have written a separate blog about that here.
Keep in mind that you don’t need a huge piece for the crystal to do it’s job. Palm stones work wonderfully! Additionally, the more that you work with the stones, the stronger the results are.
I recommend that you buy one that fits into the palm of your hand… it’s easier to keep it in your pocket.
How To Choose Which Crystal To Buy
For the more common crystals, I suggest:
Go to the store and gather all of the symptom’s crystals
Line them up
Pick them up one at a time, enclosing the crystal in your fist – it doesn’t have to be tight.
Close your eyes and focus on the crystal and ask if it is meant for you. Experience how each one feels in your hand. Try not to rush. If you take your time, you should feel a bit of electromagnetic energy or warmth from the right stone. Or, perhaps you will just instantly know which is the right one for you once you hold each one of them?
For the more rare crystals, you may have to buy them online. To buy crystals online, follow the steps above, however, try using the pictures as your guide.
Gather and save pictures of each stone to choose from and save them in a separate folder (for easy transition).
With your eyes open, focus your mind on each picture of gemstone separately. Allow your vision to go slightly out of focus… just like daydreaming.
Focus on connecting with the stone, ask if it is meant for you.
Then close your eyes and use your Third Eye (mind’s eye) and imagine holding it in your hand.
Whichever method you use to choose the crystals, buy the stones that felt the most harmonious or bonded to you.
Try not to let the look of a crystal sway your decision.
How To Use The Crystals
To Use Crystals and Gemstones:
For Focused Healing Meditation: Hold over or place on the corresponding chakra listed with each crystal. Then meditate on the symptom, but be clear and concise about what you want healed.
For All Day or General Healing: You can wear these as jewelry, or carry in your pocket.
If you bought what is called a ‘Point’ (one end looks like an arrow) be sure that you use it correctly!
If you want to bring yourself a good property of the stone (such as self love), point it towards yourself.
If you’re trying to let go of a condition (such as low self esteem, or past relationship issues) point it away from you.
To learn what to do with your newly bought crystals and what it means to “work” with them, read this blog. It teaches you how to properly clear, charge and work with your crystals. It may be time to do this with your older ones anyway!
In order to flourish, relationships must be fluid and free rather than overly rigid and controlled by emotional neediness or insecurity. It’s important to master your emotions so that they do not rule the relationship. A partnership based solely on emotion is out of balance and out of control.
Self-control is the key here. Act from a combination of emotion and intellect, and your relationship will thrive and grow. Be sure that your influence is gentle and loving. This is not the time for domination.
This card asks you to accept another person’s uniqueness and to not require that person to conform to a mold of your choosing just to make you feel more comfortable.
This card also serves as a reminder to come from compassion and understanding rather than anger or frustration. Now is the time for patience, steadiness, and clear thinking. Apply these qualities to your relationship with others and with yourself.
If you’re involved with a difficult person or situation, try to look through the other person’s eyes and experience what his or her heart and soul feels. Try to see the situation from another perspective.
Like a beautiful summer day, this card brings joyful energy. Take a break or step back just for now from any concerns you may have around matters of the heart, and spend some time in happy pursuits. Find reasons to celebrate with others. Remember the Law of Attraction, and a high rate of vibration will attract all that you desire.
Welcome this warm, sunny energy into your life. Allow it to lift your spirits. Rejuvenate your relationships by renewing yourself with this joyful energy. Allow serious relationship issues to be put on the back burner for now.
This card speaks of spending positive time together, in sharing and conversation. Lovingly open your heart and mind to people. Share your thoughts and, above all, be a good listener.
Challenge For The Week:
Psychic Tarot For The Heart by John Holland
Just Breathe
Keywords: Step back, reconnect, rest, recharge
So much time and effort can be expended in maintaining current relationships or in creating new ones that it’s easy to forget to just stop and breathe once in a while. This life is not just about connecting with other people. The most important connections you can have are with the Divine and your Higher Self.
This is a good time to take a break from your personal relationships and reconnect with your spiritual self. Set aside a few minutes every day to sit quietly and just “be.”
In addition to caring for your spiritual self, look after your physical body. Get plenty of sleep, eat healthy foods, and exercise. Treat yourself to a movie, or take a walk in nature.
How The Cards Come Together:
Christine’s Guidance
In the theme this week our Guides are advising that self-control begets confidence. Allow a situation to unfold, and detach yourself from the outcome. Don’t try to control it.
The end result of self-control and confidence is peace. Take some time to examine how “control” in its many aspects is affecting your relationships.
Our approach to the week being that we try keep a positive attitude and outlook. You’ll find that when you remain optimistic, joy will bring increased stability and warmth to your relationships.
Challenging us this week will be in spending time on ourselves. Recognize that if you don’t take care of yourself, you won’t have enough energy to take care of your loved ones.
Periodically step away from any cares around heart matters and focus on recharging your soul. Dedicate some time for yourself to recharge your emotional batteries and therefore have more energy to invest in your relationships.
Many people are learning to use gemstones for Psychic awareness and abilities. However, they’re not only for wonderfully opening our psychic abilities… they can affect everything within our lives.
Using Crystals and gemstones is healing and very powerful. Furthermore, when gemstones are set with intention the possibilities are endless.
Cleanse, charge, bond and program with intent; believe the energy you put into it and watch your world change.
Crystals are rapidly becoming more popular. About 50% of my clientele have admitted to buying them but only half of those people know that they’re meant for specific uses or personal symptoms.
It may be time to clear-charge-bond-infuse your older crystals anyway! It should be done after specifically working with a crystal or if it has been sitting out in the open longer than a month.
How To Use The Crystals [A.K.A. ‘working with them’]
How To Use The Crystals And Gemstones In This List:
For Focused Healing Meditation: Hold over or place on the corresponding chakra listed with each crystal. Then meditate on the symptom, but be clear and concise about what you want healed.
For All Day Healing: You can wear these as jewelry, or carry in your pocket.
If you bought what is called a ‘Point’ (one end looks like an arrow) be sure that you use it correctly!
If you want to bring yourself a good property of the stone (such as self love), point it towards yourself.
If you’re trying to let go of a condition (such as low self esteem, or a past relationship issues) point it away from you.
List Of Symptoms (and the crystals that can help heal them)
Here you can learn about some crystals and gemstones that I have used and had personal success with. Many are inexpensive but there are some that will cost more, especially if you’re buying the crystal already set in jewelry.
Keep in mind that you don’t need a huge piece for the crystal to do it’s job. The more that you work with them, the stronger the results are.
I have listed certain conditions below and the crystals that will help. Do your research. I have included many links to crystals in the list, however, not to every one as there are simply too many.
There is often more than one crystal that you could buy, which is where your intuition kicks in. After doing your research, which one are you drawn to the most?
Use the appropriate crystals to heal these particular symptoms or conditions. I would, however, add that there are a few crystals in the list that have dual or even multipurpose.
For example:
Shungite (Pictured below) – Everyone should try to own at least one palm-sized piece of Shungite. I cannot say enough about this particular mineraloid. It may not be all that pretty but the multiple affects from this stone are amazing!
Shungite removes all low vibrations and negative effects; toxins, stress, nervousness, psychic overwhelm, emotional trauma symptoms. It enables and progresses grounding, focus and tranquility. Furthermore, Shungite is said to be able to remove bacteria and act like a carbon filter for water! This stone is special! Check it out here.
Blue Drusy Quartz (also known as Blue Druzy Quartz – Note – careful not to confuse it with Blue Agate – Blue Drusy Quartz grows inside of Blue Agate and there are many sellers who will try to convince you that they are the same). Image from CrystalViden.com
Grounding :
Grounding is detoxification of negative (too high or too low vibration) energy, as well as, bringing your energy vibration frequency down to an earthly level so that you can relax, focus on life and be at peace.
The information given in this blog is in no way intended to be a substitute for treatment by a medical practitioner. Further assistance should be sought from a suitably qualified crystal healer. Healing can be defined as bringing the body, emotions, mind and spirit back into energetic balance. It does not imply a cure.
To All wishing to be part of a Psychic And Spiritual Development Community. Photo by Matheus Bertelli on Pexels.com
To all wishing to be a part of a Psychic and Spiritual Development Community,
Psychic and Spiritual Development Community Event Cover
I’ve missed you all so much! We’re finally back! It’s through Zoom this time, but we will get back to in-person meetings again soon. We’re going to gather every 2 weeks this fall, starting October 27, 2021.
To learn more or to sign up, the link for the event is below.
This particular Meetup will be about the Studies we are working on from the Psychic & Spiritual Development Workbook Lessons 1-2-3.
We will also learning to meditate 🧘🏻♀️ to open and protect ourselves from the energy that we work with, then learn Grounding and closing.We will also do a couple of interactive exercises to expand on the lessons learned.
Don’t worry if you have no experience, as I can guide you along and can give you access to online resources, the worksheets and help you learn what’s necessary. There’s always a way to catch up. 😊
There is a donation recommendation ($5, $10, $15) to cover the costs of supplies, resources and running the gathering. However, please don’t worry if you can’t afford it at this time, as it is not required.
You must RSVP by 24 hours prior to the meeting.
I’m looking forward to seeing you all there!
Join me at Psychic & Spiritual Development Levels 1-2-3
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